Motherhood

Motherhood is the most heavenly feeling that cannot be defined into few words. It comes with a great responsibility. Every woman has to experience the 9 crucial months to step into the feel of being a mother. Being a mother is one of the highest callings and greatest occupations on the earth.

The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. When you become a mother, you are no longer the centre of your own universe. You surrender that position to your kids. 

Mother word itself is so heart touching and holy that Mother is always considered next to god. When God told Adam and Eve, “Be fruitful, and multiply, fill the earth…” There is what appears to be an innate desire within the woman to bring new life into the world.

There are many roles that is been played by a women but the most important role of her is as a Mother. It is a boon to women to feel another life with in her.... And when the time arrives to give a birth to a baby there is a mix of feelings inside every woman. There is huge transition going to take place from a woman as a Mother. There comes a point when fun no longer means going out anytime, partying or thinking about yourself.  Fun means cartoon movies, family dinners, messy house, sleeping early. Being a mother doesn’t change it just realise you that the little one you have delivered just deserves the best of everything you can provide. Motherhood is the choice you make every day to put someone happy and well-being ahead of your own. Motherhood is the place where all love begins and ends it is a journey not a destination. It is the decision which you have not made it is God who picks you for.

Inner Beauty

Throughout history beauty has been described in many ways. Some people think beauty is vile others think is wholesome. Every century beauty has changed and has become a new meaning. But beauty doesn’t just come from humans; it also comes from nature, truth, religion, life and art. Beauty has come from a long way and it has been considered most of the time as something pure, clean, untainted and fresh.

According to  Journal of Personality and Social Psychology beauty wasn’t only defined as having good looks, but it was also defined as having inner beauty. Having inner beauty is considered oneself having kindness, sensitivity, tenderness or compassion. It is something that no one can physically observe. This shows that beauty has  many characteristics and attributes for many things. Like, nature is beautiful when its fresh green it looks nice and pure. Or even animals are sometimes attractive with facial features.

Beauty is considered as a very powerful weapon in society. It helps achieve more goals. It has a sense of success and inspiration. Throughout years and years people have seen fashion part of beauty and still in modern time see it as the “perfect” thing to be.

Beauty is what we believe and perceive as beautiful, whether it be because we follow the norm that society put out to be as beauty or we believe beauty to be something else. This means that beauty can differ from person to person or country to country. In other words beauty is sensory pleasure, so what I see as beauty you may not.

We find pleasure in a characteristic present in a person place or thing, that provides a perceptional experience of pleasure or satisfaction to our sensors which can be the mind, eyes which can be caused by a shape, color personality, sound etc. beauty is also used to commercialize. We see the societies perception of beauty everywhere. We see them in billboards, commercials, and on advertisement. This happens because humans are hungry for beauty and since beauty stimulates our senses, then it helps sell whatever is being advertised.

All women like it when they hear sweet words like “you are beautiful”. But the beauty of a woman is far from her looks or her figure. Inner beauty is important as well. When a women has a beautiful personality she has a blend of good manners, behavior, etiquette intelligence smile, sense of humor etc. all of this things that have nothing to do with the physical appearance also make a women look beautiful and make her more attractive.

Inner beauty which everyone admires is becoming a rare commodity these days. Outer beauty can be obtained by expensive surgeries and incommodities. Inner beauty, on the other hand can be obtained by the cleanliness of one’s actions, thoughts and feelings. It is what makes our personality and our character. Everyone has the capacity for beauty, but it is up to the individual to discover their own perception of beauty and how they can apply it to their every day life. Just how it is up to one’s self to determine our own beauty it is also up to the  individual to see the inner beauty of others and in life itself, and in order to accept and respect others one must accept and respect ourselves.

Journey to Happiness

For the sustenance of the healthy life we need air, water and food. Apart from that we require compatible environment and each other’s support. Along with all these we require Happiness the most important necessity of our lives. And this requirement varies according to each human being.

The nature of human being is such that it always wanders for the real Happiness of life. The eternal always quest for the real Happiness. Happiness basically comes from within. Look at the kids they find Happiness in anything, which may be very usual for others, and does not hold any value, but as we grow old, we bind ourselves with so many materialistic things, and what we don’t have, and forget to enjoy what we possess.

We spend our whole life in finding Happiness what really matters. Sidestep all the stress from our life and realise what makes us really happy can help us finding the Happiness. As we all know throughout our life journey from childhood, we hear about happiness and assume we are happy. Our teachers, parents, colleagues keep saying that we should live happily but still we find ourselves on the path of unhappiness, conflict and indulge in negative thoughts. We keep saying in public that we should live happily. Theoretically, we all know the impact of happiness but, still, we are not able to achieve the same. Any act by which you create happiness, it is happy moments for yourself and your loved ones.

It has been experienced in many cases where people do not know how to handle the negative situation. They expect things to happen according to their own interests and wishes, but it is not feasible.   In today’s fast life in which we aim to eat, make money, have shelter and self image, have become the priorities of our life.

A child brought up without proper guidance and knowledge to achieve happiness and deal with the negative situations will be lost. With our busy life schedules, we are rigid in our thought processes and forget the basic tools of handling our emotions.The human mind is distinct from the animal mind. Human emotions are full of thoughts when compared to animals.

Aim: First, establish an objective that we must aim to be happy in all conditions.  As the sun gives light, our existence is for happiness. We must establish in ourselves what we want to achieve. Now,no one wishes to live with misery, anger and jealousy. Our clear thoughts and aim guide us at every stage of our life about what we want.

Tuning of your mind: First of all, decide in your mind: “what do I want?” If this is done, our emotions will form accordingly as emotions implicate our deeds. Write in a special note book clearly outlining step-by-step that what you want. While writing please mention how much we can move and our limitations in mind. Once you have written in the note book, make a habit to read it regularly.

It helps to condition our mind and improve our internal emotions. Other tools are meditation, Pranayam, Yoga and Good Companions. Meditation helps to release your past deeds which become an obstacle in path of your achievement.

When you are happy you will see others are happy. You will be blessed in happiness. 

We should have the feeling that we are blessed. Once we realise the feeling of blessed, then all complaints disappear, all insecurities evaporate and feeling of unloved dissolves.

My Best Friend

My Best friend is my soul

Without her I feel alone

Pretty and pleasant, she is full of life

Everybody likes the way she smiles

Cracking jokes and entertaining all

Kind and sweet she is at heart

She understands everyone’s emotions

She has a huge heart like an ocean

Always try to make my fool

But I can figure out whether it is true

Playing prank on me a she always do

I like them all she has no clue

Quarrels and fights as we always did

And never letting our egos hit

Always on my side provided I’m right

Supporting me through my good or bad times

Loving and caring as I always find her

These sweet days together are just unforgettable.

    

Past & Present

Many of us clutch the past so tightly that it leaves our arms too full to embrace the present.

Though u can’t go into the past and make a brand new start but yes you can make your present bright and make a brand new start. Like some wise person have said: past is history, future is mystery so live your present to the fullest.

Whatever you experience in the past should always be used as a better experience in the present not bitter. So, don’t let your past fades the spark of present.

Past always pulls you back, never let u live to the present glory of life. Just shut the doors of the past forever and open new doors for the present.

Hence move on and get over with the past, don’t let your present suffer. Always bring your present as an example not your past misfortunes.

Story of a penny

Consistent with the requirements of individuals, for some I'm only a penny and for some I'm a penny. 

The Earth spins around the sun and individuals and their lives rotate around me. 

When I'm in the hands of a need I get vital and when I'm in the hands of the lavishness I'm only a penny.

I stay for long time in the rich men's pocket and it takes a second to turn out from the poor men's pocket. Again I'm only a penny 

To win over me some individuals confront challenges and some equitable give challenges. After all I'm a penny.

For somebody I’m a source of happiness and for some I’m great cause of sorrow. I’m a penny

By understanding all these unavoidable truths that apply to everyone I need to say don't give me such significance as there are such a variety of noteworthy things retreat in our lives and I’m just a penny.

Is Life = Puzzle???

    Life is kind of rollercoaster of puzzles, one you solve another one stands in front of You….  

The day I was about to come on earth my parents were confused whether a boy or a girl would be born? Here just the puzzle began..

And when I was born, I started crying, why??  A sort of puzzle..(due to over whelmed with joy of coming to this world or just because  I am born?)

Celebrations started around me and I was not able to understand what is going on… a new world a new environment, everything is just like a puzzle …

Now my parents want me to be a good human being, so they try to inculcate good things in me,  however how would I choose what is good or bad? Again a puzzle…

The point when my profession came into the picture and my parents needed I to turn into a doctor or an engineer… yet I needed to be something else… however what it is? Extraordinary perplexity, again a puzzle…

Here comes the most vital stage of my existence, marriage. No one got some information about my will of doing it or not, yet my Parents and social order needed so.. As per them I need to do it at one purpose of time.. Again a Puzzle...

I need to give my family a beneficiary, if I am prepared to turn into a parent or not? Puzzled again…

As I am getting more seasoned, my health began getting crumbling and my family members are confounded, if I am set to cease to exist or live for few more months/days…

Along these lines living with such a large number of puzzles in life, when I look into my past I end up trapped into a puzzle called Life. 

At the end I can say life is an undefined puzzle!!!